Ok I will be the first to admit that from time to time to time and a lot more time… women can be very pushy and demanding! We can be so pushy that we feel that the guy is always wrong and we are always right.

“He always doin this n always doin this but he never ” ~cocks shotgun, salutes self, blows brains on the wall~

DAMN WE ANNOYING! How bout we just give him props for not slapping the shit outta of us by nah because that is effin horrible! Shit!!! If I was a man, I promise I would be a woman beater.  

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I am a firm believer that distance makes a relationship better. I do not always always practice it, but when I do, it refreshes my relationship. So here are some reasons y’all should spend less time with each other

One thing that i have yet to fully understand is why, as human beings, we can’t seem to wrap our heads around the fact that we have to grow up and things change sometimes. Not just speaking about everybody but including myself also, this is something that is really hard for us to do!

Wondering what the hell im talking about?? Im talking about how friends make it SO hard when the other ones get in relationships. MYSELF INCLUDED!  

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LMAO! I can’t believe how real this is. The sad part is I know people who actually do shit like this.

“7:45 am baby! What u doin commenting on his status that early?! And you the first one!”

Wtf!? And people really be mad! It’s crazy because its just a website. It just shows how much times have changed because before facebook and myspace people would have never got in arguments over stuff like this.

This wasn’t a problem because it didn’t exsist! Now its a threat to a lot of people’s relationship.

LOL!!  

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Where would love be without trials and tribulations? Would we not appreciate it as much or would it be about the same?

This is a question I ask whenever a problem comes up with my fiance.

Would I appreciate him as much if we didn’t fight? Would I miss him as much? Would I really have a chance to look at what we have if everything always went smoothly??

Idk know but what I do know is when we do argue and make up, I miss him like I haven’t seen him in forever and yearn to spend days without interruption with him.  

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How do you break up with someone and what do you think are the best ways to do it?

Since I know that I have little to no discretion, it isn’t very hard for me but I know the whole discretion thing isn’t good all the time. See sometimes I like to break the news in. A nice way. I don’t like to come off as a total bitch all the time

Here is the problem

I have been doing it so long that I don’t know how not to do it. So breaking up with someone and trying to spare their feelings is very hard for me to do.  

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A lesson that i am learning very hard in this life is how NOT to kill the trust of your significant other with “lies of omission”.

As a child, i would often tell my mother what i wanted her to know and not everything that i she needed to know. She aptly titled this as a lie of omission. Hell in my mind, technically, i wasn’t lying. I just wasn’t telling her everything.  

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I want to address what it means to date somebody nowadays. Because obviously there is a whole new spin on what it means to be in a “relationship” and what it means to just “talk”. Personally i think its all bullshit but im going to go ahead and break it down anyway and bare it in all of its ignorance.  

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So i am always on twitter asking my followers questiongs.My question i just asked a little while ago was “What it is they love most about their significant others?” Well here are a couple of answers that i recieve from this question that could have a thousands answers:

@SomaCowGeoff She never judges me, often makes me laugh, considers me ‘ere she acts, and genuinely seeks me out. And she ties my shoes for me.

@Inkognegro her patience and devotion.

@ambboogie he’s one of the funniest people I know  

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Maybe it’s because i am a woman but i find it completely hard to understand why is it that men find the  hardest time expressing how they feel. It doesn’t take an intricate plan to let your wife/girlfriend/fiance/ole lady/jumpoff , whatever the hell it is that you have, how you feel. Do you really love your male ego THAT much that you would risk losing the one you claim you love because you feel “stupid” for telling her how you feel about her?  

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