As I was chilling at home today, i decided to watch Yes Man.

It was basically about this guy who never said yes to ANYTHING. So much so that he was missing out on life and then sat and wondered why his life was depressing….

Well one day he joined this program where he had to say yes to every opportunity. Well once he did, his life became great and all these great things started to happen because i was basically the domino effect.  

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One thing that i have yet to fully understand is why, as human beings, we can’t seem to wrap our heads around the fact that we have to grow up and things change sometimes. Not just speaking about everybody but including myself also, this is something that is really hard for us to do!

Wondering what the hell im talking about?? Im talking about how friends make it SO hard when the other ones get in relationships. MYSELF INCLUDED!  

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Where would love be without trials and tribulations? Would we not appreciate it as much or would it be about the same?

This is a question I ask whenever a problem comes up with my fiance.

Would I appreciate him as much if we didn’t fight? Would I miss him as much? Would I really have a chance to look at what we have if everything always went smoothly??

Idk know but what I do know is when we do argue and make up, I miss him like I haven’t seen him in forever and yearn to spend days without interruption with him.  

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How do you break up with someone and what do you think are the best ways to do it?

Since I know that I have little to no discretion, it isn’t very hard for me but I know the whole discretion thing isn’t good all the time. See sometimes I like to break the news in. A nice way. I don’t like to come off as a total bitch all the time

Here is the problem

I have been doing it so long that I don’t know how not to do it. So breaking up with someone and trying to spare their feelings is very hard for me to do.  

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A lesson that i am learning very hard in this life is how NOT to kill the trust of your significant other with “lies of omission”.

As a child, i would often tell my mother what i wanted her to know and not everything that i she needed to know. She aptly titled this as a lie of omission. Hell in my mind, technically, i wasn’t lying. I just wasn’t telling her everything.  

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So i am always on twitter asking my followers questiongs.My question i just asked a little while ago was “What it is they love most about their significant others?” Well here are a couple of answers that i recieve from this question that could have a thousands answers:

@SomaCowGeoff She never judges me, often makes me laugh, considers me ‘ere she acts, and genuinely seeks me out. And she ties my shoes for me.

@Inkognegro her patience and devotion.

@ambboogie he’s one of the funniest people I know  

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Time and time again we have all heard this, “I love you but im not in love with you”. It may not have been directed towards you or even said to you at all but you have heard this before. YOU know who you are.

So it got me to thinking, what exactly are you trying to say here? Are you saying that you no longer share those feelings of passion that you once had for me that made you want to do anything for me? Or are you saying that now i am liken unto just a friend or a sister to you???  

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Ok so i will be the first to admit that when i saw Jessica Simpson, i was like “woah”. Those damn standards that society has set just entirelytook over my mind and i just didn’t even think twice about calling her ass fat. But this post isn’t about Jessica Simpson’s weight. This post is about societies’ standards and how we as people play into them so horribly its ridiculous..  

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Suffer through the one that you are with right now until the real deal comes along.

THAT’S F’ED UP! How is it possible for people to be so cold and so heartless towards people that have done absolutely nothing to them. You mean to tell me that instead of telling someone the honest truth about how you feel about them, you are just going to go ahead and drag it on and know nothing serious is ever going to blossom from this relationship.

In the words of Dr.West, “How could ya be so heartless!!……how could you be so heartless….”

 

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As you get older you wonder how the hell did your life turn into what it is. You know working for somebody. I have to go ahead and be honest and say that i absolutely hate working for people. It’s just not me.

I kinda really see it as a means to an end but even with that i just hate the fact that i have to do it Truth be told its actually kinda crazy. Ima literally sit around and do work for somebody else and make somebody else rich?? WTF?! That’s just my view on it. I have to get my own.  

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